What is a Man-child & how to tell if you are one!

Being born as a male doesn’t necessarily mean that the person becomes a Man, when he grows up. There are many men I see, who are acting as a man-child, even though they are already grown-up. When these man-children are in a relationship, it has a really unique pattern, both for the man and for…

Toxic women: how to recognize them & what to do about it

When it comes to harassment and abusive behavior between adults, most of the time the examples and stories are about men. However, this is absolutely not the full picture. Women can also be abusive and harass men –  I have seen this myself. It is a fact, that it happens from this angle as well;…

Are you living with a narcissist? Signs & solutions of this toxic relationship

Many people (unfortunately too many) live in relationship with a narcissistic person. Men and women likewise – as this is one of those things which doesn’t depend on whether you have XX or XY chromosomes. In my coaching practice I see many men and women struggling beside a narcissistic partner. And this struggle can be brutal….

Blocking behaviour mechanisms of the relationships

Relationship is an important topic in the lives of most people. Either because they are in one, or because they are not. A relationship, or the lack of one, reveals a lot about a person’s soul. Many suffer – either next to their partner or because they can’t find him. There are many thoughts and…

“Women only want money…” Is the stigma true?

I often hear men saying this sentence. That women around them only want money and that these women don’t care about anything else. Not even if the man is old, ugly, has a questionable personality, lack of integrity or whatever. Men often think that if women see money, it overrules everything else. Those men who…

The women’s coach perspective – my introduction on Menprovement

Dear Gentlemen, It is my pleasure to ‘meet’ you all here. It is great to see that on this platform you are all dedicated to your self-improvement and development. I truly believe that it is something we all need to strive for. To develop ourselves. To understand ourselves and the people around us better. This…

My relationship articles’ compilation

Being in a relationship mostly comes with work – in one way or another. The two people need to work on their own selves, on their connection to each other, on the continuous improvement of their relationship. This can sometimes unfortunately mean struggles as well and people can feel helpless about what is happening and…

My dating articles’ compilation

Dating and writings about it is an important topic for all those who are looking for their partner. However, articles about dating can still be interesting for those as well who are actually in a relationship, just so that they can see what is happening ‘out there’ 🙂 Thinking about this, I created a compilation…

There you go Gentlemen, it can be done well!

What exactly? Dating and getting to know someone. I have written various articles recently in which I told you about how it is possible to destroy a date, the process of getting to know someone. Let it be a simple chat discussion, an extreme narcissistic dating partner or a ‘floating’ psychological game. Fortunately, this is…

Experiencing a real-life abusive relationship – Anna’s story

In one of my previous articles I have already written about how it is to live in a psychologically abusive relationship, how important it is to realise the situation the earliest possible and for the “victim” the stand up for herself. Below, I would like to share with you Anna’s story, who lived in such…

A real-life interesting chat talk…

This real life chat talk has actually been experienced by me personally. Despite being a very short conversation, it made me think… Raise your hand if you have been in a similar situation before 😉 “- Hello, Beautiful. – Hello, how are you? – All good, and you? – All is great here, thanks a…

Experiences of a Speed Dating

I have heard a lot about Speed Dating, all types of opinions. It depends on a lot of factors how a participant perceives such an occasion. The own past relationship experiences, the own openness, the own wishes, the people attending – all of these form the personal filter for the individual’s experience. Therefore, I decided…

Extreme date with an extreme narcissist

When it comes to narcissistic connections, I have seen and experienced a lot myself. However, what happened to me on a date now, surprised me even… With the gentleman we got to know each other through the internet and after a short chatting time he asked me to meet in person – I was in,…

Psychological abuse in the relationship

If abuse is mentioned, we always think of the physical abuse. However, there is another story, which doesn’t leave visible wounds, cannot be seen by your eyes at first sight. We might think, that this one hurts less then. However, unfortunately, this is not the case. Psychological abuse can hurt the same way, can make…

The me-time – a.k.a how to be yourself in the relationship?

In a happy relationship becoming one with your partner is a fantastic thing. In such a situation though, it can certainly be a challenging mission to still be yourself and not to put yourself under him or under the unity of you two. Many people actually have the fear of loosing themselves in a relationship,…

‘Whatever I do, I cannot make my partner happy…’

Tough sentence. Difficult situation. And you are in it, day by day. You do everything, to see a smile on your partner’s face, to feel that they are satisfied. You invest extra energy in doing things that they expect, to behave the way they like it, to surround them or surprise them with things they…

As a wolf in a relationship

I saw a beautiful picture. A wolf among the Native Americans. Sometime long ago. She was with the people voluntarily. She voluntarily decided to go with them, to accompany them. She was free, yet a member of the team. She was loyal, yet she remained herself. She walked among the people being full of self-confidence,…

Taking on the role of the Saviour in your relationship

The Saviour role is certainly familiar to some of you. When you entering a relationship, next to your physically or emotionally abusive partner, you feel that you need to save them. After all, you see the good in him, you see that under / behind the lot of hurting, emotional blackmailing, emotional terror, maybe even…