Dimensions of the real lifestyle change

When the term ‘lifestyle change’ is mentioned, many people immediately think of exercising, diet and the suffering that comes with it. It is a very fashionable term these days, but the full picture is much more nuanced than that. As the exercising and dieting are just two of the elements of one single dimension of…

Reconnecting to the outside world – after winter and Covid – 2nd part

In the first part of my article, I talked about stepping out into the sunny, energising spring and summer again. Moving from dark to light, from winter to summer, can also feel overwhelming. Because there is a big change coming again. But what if there are additional unexpected obstacles?   Lack of connection Not being…

Women only ever want the bad guys… – or maybe not?

I’ve heard men say that before, as a complaint. Obviously from men, who felt they did not belong in that category. They were nice and kind men instead. And they complained that women didn’t appreciate their kindness.  Because women want someone – they think – who is a Bad Guy, who is rude to them,…

The fear of spending time alone – 2nd part

In the first part of the article I wrote about how to identify people who are afraid of spending time alone, where their fear comes from and how they can behave in a relationship. Now you can read about how the partner of such a person might react to this within a relationship, what the…

The fear of spending time alone

It can often be observed that some adults have the fear of spending time alone. They can even be terrified of it. And now I don’t mean that they are afraid of retreating for weeks, with no human contact, being isolated from the outside world. But I mean completely everyday things, like spending half a…

The King of Flirting – 2nd part

In the first part of the article I wrote about how you can recognize the Kings of Flirting and what typical female reactions can happen to this type of behavior. I also wrote about what motivates these men to behave such way – so that we can understand what is in the background of these…

The King of Flirting

I have already written in previous articles about those different negative behaviors of men that I have encountered with. Such were the ‘floater’, the appearing-disappearing, the chat-master, the extreme narcissistic or the ‘anxious monologist’ man. I also wrote about a good example in order to avoid always being negative. Now, however, I write about a…

Holidays with an Extreme Narcissist – 2nd part, the solution options

In the first part of the article I wrote about the driving forces of the extreme narcissistic person’s behavior and also about what basic causes are present deep in their souls – as awareness and understanding is already half of the battle, as I have already written that before. I wrote about some examples of…

Holidays with an Extreme Narcissist – 1st part

If one lives together with an extreme narcissistic person, life is not easy in general. However, when such a period of time comes, when you are spending a lot of time, even several days continuously with this given person, it can be especially burdensome for the “suffering” one. This time of the year comes now,…

Toxic parents – Their typical sentences and the damange they cause

First and foremost, very important: no one brings their children into this world with the intent of being bad parents to them. However, there are unfortunately parents, who become toxic to their children. And they don’t even notice it. They just keep going on with this very unhealthy behavior towards their children and wonder, what…

What is a Man-child & how to tell if you are one

Being born as a male doesn’t necessarily mean that the person becomes a Man, when he grows up. There are many men I see, who are acting as a man-child, even though they are already grown-up. When these man-children are in a relationship, it has a really unique pattern, both for the man and for…

Toxic women: how to recognize them & what to do about it

When it comes to harassment and abusive behavior between adults, most of the time the examples and stories are about men. However, this is absolutely not the full picture. Women can also be abusive and harass men –  I have seen this myself. It is a fact, that it happens from this angle as well;…

3 do’s and don’ts of creating a great online dating profile

Using the online dating apps I have encountered many interesting profiles. I have seen some that I couldn’t really understand why they existed at all. I have also seen some that were great and caught my attention – but these were the minorities, to be honest. It all starts by deciding what your aim is…

Coaching anywhere articles’ compilation

When it comes to coaching, we could believe that it only means the well-known business or life coaching. However, it can be used so much more broadly in many other areas as well. Coaching can be used together with language teaching and arts, complementing physical workouts, during astrological analysis. Coaching helps us a lot to…

Blocking behaviour mechanisms of the relationships

Relationship is an important topic in the lives of most people. Either because they are in one, or because they are not. A relationship, or the lack of one, reveals a lot about a person’s soul. Many suffer – either next to their partner or because they can’t find him. There are many thoughts and…

Self-confidence and emotions articles’ compilation

It would be so good to live in a world where everyone has their self-confidence at the maximum of the healthy level, where everyone is aware of their emotions, feelings and can communicate and manage them properly. Everyone’s lives would be much easier. In reality, however, this is not the case. Many people are unaware…

The trap of “… but what will others think”

Many have a desire to live a life where there is harmony and peace, there are no conflicts and everyone loves everyone. I think this is a very understandable desire of anyone, because when the opposite of these becomes real, it can have a big negative impact on the everyday life. Many times, however, I…

As a grown-up becoming an Adult

Every child grows up once. This is an unmistakable fact. The other question, however, is whether the grown-up child will actually become an Adult in the coming years of their life, or if they will remain in the so-called Child state. This is a much more delicate topic, and many adults in this situation often…

Experiencing a real-life abusive relationship – Anna’s story

In one of my previous articles I have already written about how it is to live in a psychologically abusive relationship, how important it is to realise the situation the earliest possible and for the “victim” the stand up for herself. Below, I would like to share with you Anna’s story, who lived in such…

Psychological abuse in the relationship

If abuse is mentioned, we always think of the physical abuse. However, there is another story, which doesn’t leave visible wounds, cannot be seen by your eyes at first sight. We might think, that this one hurts less then. However, unfortunately, this is not the case. Psychological abuse can hurt the same way, can make…

5 things you can learn about yourself through your dog

Our dogs – as any other family members – can teach us many things. Through them we can get to know ourselves more deeply, as many challenges situations can occur. Those who already had a dog know exactly how important the new family member can become. They can bring a lot of joy and happiness…

As a wolf in a relationship

I saw a beautiful picture. A wolf among the Native Americans. Sometime long ago. She was with the people voluntarily. She voluntarily decided to go with them, to accompany them. She was free, yet a member of the team. She was loyal, yet she remained herself. She walked among the people being full of self-confidence,…

The sphere of the soul and who sees what from it

While having a conversation with a friend of mine it popped into my mind that people and their souls are actually like a sphere. Inside the sphere there is a clean, white, glowing inner ball that reflects the pure, true soul. This, however, is surrounded on the outside by an uneven, crumbly surface that symbolizes…

Cross this bridge only when you get there!

Two of my dear friends inspired this article. We walked in a fantastic park and talked about the big things of life. How we are, how we are going to be, how we imagine our future, what we would like our future to look like, what we want to achieve. What I’ve noticed lately is…

The danger of the ‘love-chocolates’

More and more often I see how much the people are lacking the solid inner self-confidence. It is practically a fact, that the self-confidence and self-evaluation of most people is not on the maximum of the healthy level. This is how we grew up, how we socialised, how our habit system was created. In the…

My own five stress relief methods

No matter how much we like to spend our lives in peace, from time to time a stressful situation or period finds us. It is the same with me personally as well. What I consider important at such times first of all, is to be able to regain our calmness. And then, of course, drawing…

Expectations, that we should let go of

Expectations, or we can also say, ideas. In connection with someone or something. We don’t necessarily consciously expect those certain things to turn out the way they are in our head, that’s why we can call them ideas. A new situation may come into our life, that we think will be so bad. Then it…

Taking on the role of the Saviour in your relationship

The Saviour role is certainly familiar to some of you. When you entering a relationship, next to your physically or emotionally abusive partner, you feel that you need to save them. After all, you see the good in him, you see that under / behind the lot of hurting, emotional blackmailing, emotional terror, maybe even…

Everyone can only see what they are ready for…

I found a very interesting article on the Spanish-language site El Librero de Gutenberg, entitled “No one can be forced to see what they are not yet prepared for” (No podemos obligar a nadie a ver aquello para lo que aún no está preparado). As I was reading it, several occasions came to my mind…