Is the agressive man the “real man”? – 2nd part

In the first part of the article, I wrote about what can be behind a man’s aggressive behavior and why they may feel that this is the best way to resolve certain conflicts, to assert their interests, to protect their loved ones. Now, we will continue this topic by looking at whether aggressive men are…

Is the aggressive man the “real man”?

I believe many of you have heard about what happened between Will Smith and Chris Rock at the 2022 Oscar Gala. For those of you who haven’t, I’ll start with a brief summary. Chris Rock was presenting an Oscar award in one of the categories at the gala when, as a stand-up comedian, he made…

Women only ever want the bad guys… – 2nd part

In the first part of the article, you could read about what a Good Guy in the good sense is and how to spot men who look like one but actually aren’t. I also wrote about the characteristics of a Bad Guy and what his main behavior mechanism is. Now I write about what kind…

Women only ever want the bad guys… – or maybe not?

I’ve heard men say that before, as a complaint. Obviously from men, who felt they did not belong in that category. They were nice and kind men instead. And they complained that women didn’t appreciate their kindness.  Because women want someone – they think – who is a Bad Guy, who is rude to them,…

The fear of spending time alone – 2nd part

In the first part of the article I wrote about how to identify people who are afraid of spending time alone, where their fear comes from and how they can behave in a relationship. Now you can read about how the partner of such a person might react to this within a relationship, what the…

The fear of spending time alone

It can often be observed that some adults have the fear of spending time alone. They can even be terrified of it. And now I don’t mean that they are afraid of retreating for weeks, with no human contact, being isolated from the outside world. But I mean completely everyday things, like spending half a…

‘Whatever I do, I cannot make my partner happy…’

Tough sentence. Difficult situation. And you are in it, day by day. You do everything, to see a smile on your partner’s face, to feel that they are satisfied. You invest extra energy in doing things that they expect, to behave the way they like it, to surround them or surprise them with things they…

Why do you always bump into the unreachables?

Ladies and Gents, this is for both of you now. I believe many of you can find yourselves in the following example. You are craving for love, you wish to find your partner. Very-very much and even more and more as the months and years are passing. However, whenever you bump into someone, that person…

Starving for crumbs of attention

This for you Ladies out there, who are living a life in which you do not get the well-deserved attention from the men around you. Maybe you are not in a relationship, but maybe you are living in one. Either way, lacking the attention from the men is so easy, unfortunately. In case you don’t…

Coping techniques regarding the controlling people of our lives

In my previous article I wrote about the controlling people in the different areas of our lives. It is one thing to realise, that we are facing such situations from time to time, however, being in them leads to one obvious end result and action. We need to solve them. We need to manage these situations….

The controlling people of our lives

You can meet controlling people in many areas of your life. In your romantic relationship, at your workplace, in your family. Sometimes it can be tricky to realize that you are facing one, as it can be misunderstood as a type of caring, showing interest or helping. But all in all, what you can feel…